Missionaries of the Sacred

We can all help end child maltreatment by learning the signs of abuse and neglect so that we can report suspected instances. Below are some indications that a child may be suffering from neglect or abuse.⁴

If you see these signs, follow the child abuse and neglect reporting protocols in your state. You can also call 1-800-4-A-CHILD if you need help, have questions, or suspect an instance of child abuse or neglect.

General Behavioral Signs

• Sudden changes in child's behavior or school performance⁵
• Always watchful/seems to be preparing for something bad to happen⁵
• Is overly withdrawn⁵
• Comes to school or other activities early, stays late and does not want to go home⁵
• Low self-esteem⁴
• Extremes of behavior (such as excessive compliance and passiveness or being very demanding and aggressive)⁴
• Lags in physical, emotional or intellectual development⁴
• Frequently at home with no caretaker⁴
• Uncomfortable with physical contact⁴
• The parent shows little concern for the child⁵
• The parent denies existence of child's problems in school or at home⁵
• The parent depends primarily on the child for care, attention and satisfaction of emotional needs⁵
• The parent and child rarely touch or look at each other⁵
• The parent and child say they do not like each other or consider their relationship entirely negative⁵
• The parent asks teachers or other caregivers to use harsh physical discipline⁵

Signs of physical abuse

• bruises⁴
• welts
• swelling
• sprains or fractures
• burns
• lacerations or abrasions

Signs of sexual abuse

• difficulty in walking or sitting⁴
• torn, stained or bloody clothing
• pain or itching in the genital area
• sexually transmitted diseases
• pregnancy

Signs of neglect

• lack of adequate supervision⁴
• poor hygiene
• inappropriate dress
• lack of proper nutrition or shelter
• frequent absences from class
• untreated medical or dental needs
• substance abuse
• delayed physical development
• speech disorders